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| Hitch Movie Poster |
Alex Hitchin's is a dating professional. His profession involves secretly helping men get into relationships with women who otherwise may not have ever noticed them. He also always intends to help the men stay in the relationships. The process Hitch goes through involves careful attention to details of the women's life and interests to help make "natural" situations in which the man and the women fall in love.
There is a bromance/ romance that is equal in measure throughout the whole movie. Two plots essentially intertwined and meshed together. Hitch meets Albert Brennamen, who is an extremely awkward, bubbly man who is helplessly in love with the rich and famous client of his investment firm, Allegra Cole. While the task seems almost impossible we watch as Hitch helps Albert win over the woman of his dreams.
During this process, Hitch becomes drawn to a busy gossip columnist, Sara Melas, who is not the least bit interested in love. Sara is a career driven women who doesnt let anyone get in her way. Hitch and Sara confide in eachother and let their vulberability about love out to each other. Somewhere between, jet skiing, kicking her in the head, reminding her of her murderer great grandfather, an allergic reaction, and a whole lot of Benadryl Sara and Hitch admittedly have fallen for each other.
Sara, however, is focused on finding the latest drama to stay on her bosses good side, with latest drama being the fact that Allegra Cole is being caught around the city with Albert Brennamen, who clearly doesn't fit society's standards. After realizing the so-called "dating doctor" is Hitch she sets out to expose his services to the public and break things off with him, feeling scammed by a con artist with cheesy pick up lines. Simultaneously, things between Albert and Allegra are over because of the scandalous report.
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| Ending scene at Albert and Allegra's wedding. Everyones dancing and happy |
This movie is for sure funny in some areas, but I really got a more serious vibe from this rom-com than some of the others I have watched before.
Here are some of my favorite funny scenes throguhtout the movie:
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| Hitch is helping Albert get comfortable with the upcoming kiss with Allegra. He explains the guy should go in 90% and let the women go in the rest of the 10%. |
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| Hitch has a food allergy which causes his entire face to blow up into an allergic reaction. Sara takes care of him the rest of the night as he is high on a bottle of Benadryl. |
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| Albert is showing Hitch his dance movie, claiming he has nothing to worry about when it comes to dancing. " You just need a little bit of this, that's it!" |
Gender equality?
Gender and social equality always comes into question with romantic comedies. For your typical romantic comedies you often times will see a very familiar and very similar plot from movie to movie or even book to book. But something about them is great enough to continuously pull us back in every time.
One thing I found pretty interesting was the fact that I didn't feel like this romantic comedy was made predominantly for a female audience, which is typically the norm. I thought this movie would appeal to a lot of couples in general and while the film appears to be trying to wow a female audience by endearing them to the men presented as gentlemen, we also rely heavliy on a male perspective regarding relationships and dating.
It was really nice to see a scene that a man condemns another man for being driven by shallow impulses. The source that Sara went mentioned above is a prospective client named Vance. Let me put this in the best way I know how (skip past if you don't like harsh language)
VANCE IS A PIECE OF SHIT! Dont believe me?
Here is the restaurant scene where we FIRST meet Vance.. Enough said.
In this scene we see Hitch really show that he is serious about what he does and is passionate about helping men be with women for love, not for sex. Which is definitely a great message and admittedly- I thought it was kinda hot to see a man act like that towards another man, reguarding the saftey and care of a woman.
Now if we look deeper into this movie, deeper than the general fact that it's a rom-com and does a great job at being a rom-com, it can get ugly pretty fast. Because this movie is still fresh for me being this was my first time watching it, I am able to put aside some of my feelings for young Will Smith and get to the root of things. Its arguable that this is a 2 hour movie about the realization that women aren't rocket science problems that are impossible to figure out, but are in fact humans who take a liking to honesty and having their own opinions and thoughts. The outer layer of the movie, which is really intriguing, is something one can easily be fooled by.
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| Sara, chugging the wine before she throws the vegetables at Hitch. |
Another complaint I have regarding our lead female character, Sara, is how she is painted out to be a villain. Though played as a "power woman" she is also the typical "love skeptic" whose eyes have to be opened by a man to realize she might be wrong... And as much as Sara worked so hard for her job and wanted respect, the most her coworkers did was cared about her love life... including her boss! She also has a gay co-worker who does nothing the entire movie except get in her case about having a boyfriend. Her best friend (which is again, very typical for these rom-com movies) is seemingly convinced that she won't be successful in her life until she has found love. And then we have our high class woman, the only other woman that is shown in this movie more than one time, who NEEDED the love doctor to help her notice the lower class man who is seemingly perfect for her. This is just overall frustrating, three beautiful, powerful women, being told or thinking they need a man to somehow complete them. But hey, it wouldn't be a romance movie if it wasn't doing these things.
I think that it was messed up to portray Sara as such a childish character throughout some parts of the movie. Of course she would get an inaccurate assumptions that Hitch had done something to hurt her friend and she, though portrayed as a smart woman, goes about this in an incredibly immature way. Honestly, the scene where she is throwing vegetables and throwing a child-like fit about all of it in his home was uncomfortable to watch. I just kept thinking about the ways Hollywood portrays women: women know that all men are just liars and they won't tell the truth anyways. And of course- in the middle of her well planned tactic to go to his house and make a fool of herself, Hitch is there to calm her down and ask her is she had a bad day. This part of the movie really seemed to suggest that even when you're wrong about your assumptions you can still be justified in acting out on men based on the fact that they're men and they're evil. And lets not forgot they added the typical "cry on the couch eating watching a romantic movie" scene for her to do to just to add to the stereotypical ways of a romantic comedy movie.
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| Part of Hitch's rousing speech in the speed dating room to Sara. |
There is also a point where Hitch is trying to prove himself to Sara in a rousing speech claiming no woman would respond to a man who walks up to her saying " I like you" as the crowd of men around him agree. It is a condemn towards women for not instantly falling into a mans arms if he has feelings for her. This, is not respectful towards women as people. Placing my personal opinion and life in here quick: My fiance walked up to me 6 years ago and told me he liked me... so this scene is a little too much for me to just ride along with. With that being said, no woman should have to be tricked or conned into falling in love.
Obviously, my issues with this movie were those of gender inequality. I am forcing myself to remember that gender roles can be exaggerated at times and in films such as this one, it is expected and almost always generally accepted for a woman to be won over by the male. I think however, it is important to note than women can and do make their own decisions in the society we live in today and men do not need anyone to tell them how to "win a girl over". I think that taking a deeper look into productions moving forward will help to see the true importances of gender and the society we live in and how it matches with what we are watching. I also think it is important to be able to see the differences and point out the not-so-good things hollywood does to portray genders.
Hitch could appeal to a variety of ages and audience members. I think that overall the movie has a light-heartedness with a deeper romantic vibe and it really isn't the worst thing. Keeping in mind that romantic comedies can sometimes be a little similar to one another- this one doesn't disappoint when you're looking for one of those good, old fashioned romance movies with a little bit of laughter.
Sources:
Hitch and Sara dancing GIF https://media.giphy.com/media/3ohzdCFBY1uYLpOv5K/giphy.gif
Youtube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H42jVUavXiA
Hitch and Albert kissing: https://fierce.wearemitu.com/entertainment/13-reasons-why-hitch-starring-eva-mendes-had-the-best-formula-for-a-romantic-comedy-of-all-time/
Hitchs allergic reaction: https://blog.fauquierent.net/2012/01/food-allergy-reaction-video.html
Albert dancing for Hitch: https://coub.com/view/13lkbe
This is exactly why falling in love is https://tenor.com/view/hitch-will-smith-gif-8926077
Sara chugging wine: https://fierce.wearemitu.com/entertainment/13-reasons-why-hitch-starring-eva-mendes-had-the-best-formula-for-a-romantic-comedy-of-all-time/
I read this and found it pretty amusing and interesting. Check it out if you want! https://fierce.wearemitu.com/entertainment/13-reasons-why-hitch-starring-eva-mendes-had-the-best-formula-for-a-romantic-comedy-of-all-time/







I love the actors in this film, but I also agree there are parts in this movie that leave me feeling very anxiety ridden. Especially the way Sara is portrayed, and how "women are meant to be wooed" or something. 'That's how you know he's a special man, if ya really put him in the trenches!' That feels like a really odd and binary way of approaching a new relationship with someone. I love that you were able to see right through that.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed that this romcom was from the male perspective, because it allowed more men to feel comfortable to watch. Will Smith's the best. That part where he shows Kevin James how to dance and kiss was a highlight of my life honestly.
I loved this film when I watched it! It was a great mix of comedy and romance. It stuck true to a lot of the rom-com aspects like the confession of love and the big dance scene at the end. The actors were all great at portraying their characters. Kevin James was my favorite character in the film because he was absolutely hilarious. I also liked how the gender roles were not the typical ones we usually see. Sara was really into her career instead of a man and Hitch was a dating coach. Overall it was a great rom-com!
ReplyDeleteIt's been a long time since I've seen this movie, and I honestly forgot about the way women are portrayed in it. When I was 7 years old watching this, I don't know that I would've picked up on some of these themes. I think one of the most concerning concepts in this movie that I continue to see all the time today is that men believe women owe them something for giving a simple compliment. They have the mentality that, "well, I told her she's pretty and bought her a drink. Why isn't she into me?" I've been in this situation multiple times at the bar, and it's such a mood killer. The kind compliments are usually followed up with, "you aren't that pretty anyway", after being shut down. It's been 14 years since this movie came out, and the same irritation men feel towards being rejected is very much alive. That part aside, I will always be a huge Will Smith fan, and I would love to see a more modern take on this movie in the next couple years. The story line is good, it's just that some of the concepts are a bit outdated.
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